Sometimes...police departments
engage in some really stupid
practices. If you're ever directed
to do something that sounds
outrageous...it probably is.


In today's society, men can no longer claim a monopoly on most
formerly male dominated areas of society…except one, of
course. Men are, and will remain to be, the preferred targets for
sexual scandal. Through no fault of their own, men still
comprise 90% of the nation's police officers, and their suitability
for sexual scandal fodder will not diminish.
Here's a real irony. Compared to today, past generations could
be described as puritanical in their views toward sex; however,
police officers of past generations were never in the jeopardy
you'll experience for having your sexual conduct examined and
exploited for any number of reasons:
First reason: You're a man.
Second Reason: Radical feminism, combined with political
correctness, has become a political force, and men are the enemy.
Third Reason: You're a man, and a police officer—it doesn't get
any worse.
...preferred targets for sexual scandal
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Have you ever stopped to think about how immersed we are in
the subject of sex. Sexual connotations are attached to just
about everything. While some sexual references are overt,
others are subtle…but they're always there.
By far, the most entertaining, and sought after, sexual scandals
involve people who will be most damaged by scandal. The high
value target for this type of scandal is the politician. Religious
leaders are a close second. But…the most target rich
environment for sexual scandals is police officers. It's just
simple math, there are a lot more of you comprised of people
who are just as imperfect as anyone else.
...target rich environment
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The absolute explosion in information technology, the internet,
and cable television has made news the new news. The
competition is huge and fierce. It's only natural that something
as interesting as sex would be pursued to even greater lengths.
When it comes to sex, something new and fresh is usually
desirable, so the scandal hunters went after a new target…older
women who seduce adolescent boys—preferably school teachers,
and the prettier the better. Even after discovering that the
occurrences of such seductions was in ample supply, the news
coverage of the "perp" walks and court appearances remain the
almost exclusive domains of the…pretty pedofiles. In their
search for sexy seductresses, the media even expanded their
search to the pretty school teachers who seduce young men who
are legal…but, barely legal.
Talk about sexist. Even after exploiting society's general
preference for pretty women, the media exploits the mostly
benign treatment of the pretty pedofile by the criminal justice
system by asking…why? Like anyone doesn't know. Not a
problem though—news is news—and the more sex the better.
The final outcome of any sex scandal is rarely of interest since
the salacious parts have already been exhausted. Besides, once
the side shows are used up, there's still plenty of pols; preachers,
and cops.
...something new and fresh
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Any sex crime committed by a police officer is a big deal, and,
unfortunately, every one that occurs is one too many. However,
society's voracious appetite for anything about sex keeps the
media in high gear in its search for sexual scandal. While the so
called mainstream media always denies engaging in
sensationalism and catering to society's prurient interests, you'll
find none that will ignore the sexual missteps of police officers.
As a young man today, it's safe to say that you've grown up in a
social environment that's been pretty open regarding sex.
There's no question that more young people are experiencing
more sexual contact more frequently than past generations.
Well...now, put all that liberal sex nonsense behind you, because
you're about to become a police officer.
Something else that should be just as obvious is how hypocritical
most people become when it comes to other people and sex.
While it's safe to say that people think a lot about sex; although,
most won't admit it, there is one thing that seems to excite
people's voyeuristic tendencies more than anything
else…SEXUAL SCANDAL!
Ed Norris.
Police Commissioner, ex-convict, political
kingmaker, radio host, television star,
husband, father, man.
Regardless of what label he's been given, Ed
Norris has continued to rise above the media
and his critics' portrayal of him. Always
fighting for the little guy, whether from
behind a desk, a microphone, or a news
camera, Ed Norris has never been afraid to
tell anyone exactly what he thinks
Sex, Police, Celebrity... and Politics
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At age 39,after a successful career with the NYPD, Ed Norris became Baltimore's Police
Commissioner. Norris achieved celebrity status with the local media, and he moved on to
become the Superintendent of the Maryland State Police.
Norris's world turned upside down when he was indicted by a Federal Grand Jury for misusing
police department funds for "personal expenses." But...that wasn't what made the real
scandal. The personal expenses included "those stemming from adulterous affairs with
several women."
This guy didn't have a chance.
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Society is pretty forgiving of
sexual scandals when they
involve celebrities prone to
sexual excess. In fact, in most
cases, it's expected, and those so
called scandals are actually
viewed and treated as high
entertainment.
Those same celebrities will go on
with their careers. In some
cases their careers will even be
enhanced by scandal. Just
remember, as a police officer,
you're no celebrity, and you don't
want to become one.
Bad Sexual Conduct is Purely a
State of Mind.
You only have one head
containing a brain…use it!
When it comes to sex, men are
stupid. Some men learn as they
get older; some never learn;
some are just lucky while others
pay a high price for their
stupidity. Nearly all men share
one major mistake in common.
Their primal instinct blinds them
to the fact that the woman is in
control of determining any
occurrence of sexual contact as
well as its aftermath. When the
circumstances of sexual contact
are susceptible to scandal, your
decision—or at least what you
think is your decision—to
complete the contact will deny
you any control of its scandalous
consequences.
It's really quite easy to avoid
becoming a victim of career
ending sexual misconduct and
scandal. You simply put your sex
drive on hold when it's
appropriate to do so. As a police
officer, it's as simple as
breathing to recognize this
definition of appropriate.
and the Male Police Officer
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