Sometimes...police departments
engage in some really stupid
practices. If you're ever directed
to do something that sounds
outrageous...it probably is.


In today's society, men can no longer claim a monopoly on most
formerly male dominated areas of society…except one, of course.
Men are, and will remain to be, the preferred targets for sexual
scandal. Through no fault of their own, men still comprise 90% of
the nation's police officers, and their suitability for sexual scandal
fodder will not diminish.
Here's a real irony. Compared to today, past generations could be
described as puritanical in their views toward sex; however, police
officers of past generations were never in the jeopardy you'll
experience for having your sexual conduct examined and exploited for
any number of reasons:
First reason: You're a man.
Second Reason: Radical feminism, combined with political
correctness, has become a political force, and men are the enemy.
Third Reason: You're a man, and a police officer—it doesn't get any
worse.
...preferred targets for sexual scandal
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Have you ever stopped to think about how immersed we are in the
subject of sex. Sexual connotations are attached to just about
everything. While some sexual references are overt, others are
subtle…but they're always there.
By far, the most entertaining, and sought after, sexual scandals
involve people who will be most damaged by scandal. The high value
target for this type of scandal is the politician. Religious leaders are a
close second. But…the most target rich environment for sexual
scandals is police officers. It's just simple math, there are a lot more
of you comprised of people who are just as imperfect as anyone else.
...target rich environment
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The absolute explosion in information technology, the internet, and
cable television has made news the new news. The competition is
huge and fierce. It's only natural that something as interesting as
sex would be pursued to even greater lengths. When it comes to sex,
something new and fresh is usually desirable, so the scandal hunters
went after a new target…older women who seduce adolescent boys—
preferably school teachers, and the prettier the better. Even after
discovering that the occurrences of such seductions was in ample
supply, the news coverage of the "perp" walks and court appearances
remain the almost exclusive domains of the…pretty pedofiles. In
their search for sexy seductresses, the media even expanded their
search to the pretty school teachers who seduce young men who are
legal…but, barely legal.
Talk about sexist. Even after exploiting society's general preference
for pretty women, the media exploits the mostly benign treatment of
the pretty pedofile by the criminal justice system by asking…why?
Like anyone doesn't know. Not a problem though—news is news—
and the more sex the better. The final outcome of any sex scandal is
rarely of interest since the salacious parts have already been
exhausted. Besides, once the side shows are used up, there's still
plenty of pols; preachers, and cops.
...something new and fresh
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Any sex crime committed by a police officer is a big deal, and,
unfortunately, every one that occurs is one too many. However,
society's voracious appetite for anything about sex keeps the media in
high gear in its search for sexual scandal. While the so called
mainstream media always denies engaging in sensationalism and
catering to society's prurient interests, you'll find none that will
ignore the sexual missteps of police officers.
As a young man today, it's safe to say that you've grown up in a social
environment that's been pretty open regarding sex. There's no
question that more young people are experiencing more sexual
contact more frequently than past generations. Well...now, put all
that liberal sex nonsense behind you, because you're about to become
a police officer.
Something else that should be just as obvious is how hypocritical most
people become when it comes to other people and sex. While it's safe
to say that people think a lot about sex; although, most won't admit
it, there is one thing that seems to excite people's voyeuristic
tendencies more than anything else…SEXUAL SCANDAL!
Ed Norris.
Police Commissioner, ex-convict, political
kingmaker, radio host, television star,
husband, father, man.
Regardless of what label he's been given, Ed
Norris has continued to rise above the media
and his critics' portrayal of him. Always
fighting for the little guy, whether from
behind a desk, a microphone, or a news
camera, Ed Norris has never been afraid to
tell anyone exactly what he thinks
Sex, Police, Celebrity... and Politics
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At age 39,after a successful career with the NYPD, Ed Norris became Baltimore's Police
Commissioner. Norris achieved celebrity status with the local media, and he moved on to
become the Superintendent of the Maryland State Police.
Norris's world turned upside down when he was indicted by a Federal Grand Jury for misusing
police department funds for "personal expenses." But...that wasn't what made the real
scandal. The personal expenses included "those stemming from adulterous affairs with
several women."
This guy didn't have a chance.
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Society is pretty forgiving of sexual
scandals when they involve celebrities
prone to sexual excess. In fact, in
most cases, it's expected, and those so
called scandals are actually viewed
and treated as high entertainment.
Those same celebrities will go on with
their careers. In some cases their
careers will even be enhanced by
scandal. Just remember, as a police
officer, you're no celebrity, and you
don't want to become one.
Bad Sexual Conduct is Purely a State
of Mind.
You only have one head containing a
brain…use it!
When it comes to sex, men are
stupid. Some men learn as they get
older; some never learn; some are
just lucky while others pay a high
price for their stupidity. Nearly all
men share one major mistake in
common. Their primal instinct blinds
them to the fact that the woman is in
control of determining any occurrence
of sexual contact as well as its
aftermath. When the circumstances
of sexual contact are susceptible to
scandal, your decision—or at least
what you think is your decision—to
complete the contact will deny you
any control of its scandalous
consequences.
It's really quite easy to avoid
becoming a victim of career ending
sexual misconduct and scandal. You
simply put your sex drive on hold
when it's appropriate to do so. As a
police officer, it's as simple as
breathing to recognize this definition
of appropriate.
and the Male Police Officer
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